personal side note (don't read if you don't want to hear an opinion)... i am appalled at some men. the cheating and unfaithfulness is astounding here in singapore among white men. i hope i don't offend anyone with this post but please, if you live in singapore, are married, and you know me... don't come to the clinic i work at and get tested for every std possible AND please don't bring the significant other in with you (this not being your wife).... so many expats wives away for the summer...

and you know the saying when the cats away.......................................the mice get busy!

good thing i don't know many people in singapore :) it gets more interesting everyday... i am quickly learning what type of mother i WILL NOT be... so God help me!

i was eating lunch today and could not help but smile about the methods/utensils used to eat by four people... one lady was eating an indian dish of rice and curry with only her hands, another was using chop sticks, and another was using a spoon and a fork (but cutting the meat with her spoon not a knife), and me with my sandwich... got to love all the culture!